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Change One Word
I came across an interesting little article the other day that claimed you could make a big difference in your life by changing one word…
Dec 1, 20212 min read
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A Serving of Criticism? Or Kindness?
A few months ago I had a dream about my dad, who died in 2007. He was talking on the phone with two rather verbally abusive people...
Nov 24, 20213 min read
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Musings on Mortality OR "I'm Not Dead Yet!"
I never thought it would happen to me. I know that's trite but there was some secret part of my mind that never believed I would get old.
Nov 10, 20214 min read
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Small Mercies: The Best Nurse Ever
Don't discount those small kindnesses you offer to others. Tiny things can matter as much as big.
Oct 13, 20214 min read
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Further Adventures in Mindfulness: By a Bumbling Practitioner
If I allow my mind to still, if I let go of my need to control, sometimes I ease into a quiet state where time does not hold me captive.
Oct 6, 20213 min read
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Screen Time: Why I (Finally) Got Rid of My Television
Some part of me had known I was in denial when I sat on that cold kitchen floor. But I denied my denial.
Sep 29, 20215 min read
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27 Varieties of Gratitude
When others are grateful toward you for what you have done, it makes you want to do more for them. This has the same effect on...
Sep 22, 20214 min read
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Come to the edge...and...
No one could discern the roots of that terror. It was strangely elusive, perhaps from a time or place where there were no words.
Aug 11, 20214 min read
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Just a Couple of Degrees
Moving just a degree or two differently from where I am heading now might work.
Aug 4, 20213 min read
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Forget Your Perfect Offering
Something has been pulling on me, calling me to simplify, ease down, clear space to make room for something...new? different? re-focused?
Jul 28, 20213 min read
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Dis-armed
I didn't feel good there, but sometimes I felt a little less bad. A tiny shift, but it was a start.
Jun 23, 20212 min read
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My Shortest Poem
This is a good sequel for almost all of the tools I've shared over the last year. In fact, it is probably the most important concept of all.
Jun 16, 20211 min read
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Healing into the New Normal: Gentle Re-Entry as the Pandemic Begins (we hope) to Ease
When astronauts go through re-entry, they may be coming back home to some semblance of "normal" but no one expects re-entry to be simple.
Apr 21, 20213 min read
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How We've Stayed Married, Part 3: Accepting Otherness
Otherness is an odd--and cosmic--corollary to oneness. Otherness in a relationship can take many forms. There are big differences like...
Mar 31, 20214 min read
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A Strange Mirror
This strange mirror, this odd form of grace, though uncomfortable, has on occasion helped me see myself a lot more clearly.
Mar 10, 20214 min read
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Mindfulness and the Prodigal Yo-yo
I focus on my breath. I get distracted. Oops. Okay. And again. So many times that I feel like one of those toys on a string...
Feb 17, 20213 min read
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In Falling and In Rising
Something so beautiful & unusual that it follows you around for days, rising again & again from hidden stairways of your heart...
Feb 3, 20213 min read
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Being. Breathing. Being Breathed.
An absurd fantasy--I mentally roll my eyes when I read it. Yet when I decided to write about mindfulness this week that essay came to mind.
Jan 27, 20213 min read
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Balance, Balance, Balance...THUD!
When I looked at that piece of paper the next morning I saw the following: true gifts, humility, self-confidence, grandiosity. Ohhhh...
Jan 20, 20214 min read
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Small Seeds of Hope: Inverted and Everted Pain
I'm sorry he is in such pain. It is not a fun place to be. But with great power comes great responsibility. And if that power is abused...
Jan 13, 20214 min read
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