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We're Gonna Have Fun, I Know We Will: The Arbor Hill ABCs
A lighthearted song...I hope it brightens up your day, bringing back some good memories--your own or maybe your kids' or grandkids'.
Mar 17, 20213 min read
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A Strange Mirror
This strange mirror, this odd form of grace, though uncomfortable, has on occasion helped me see myself a lot more clearly.
Mar 10, 20214 min read
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A Few (More) Ideas from an Inveterate Journaler
My first discovery of the use of dialog in journaling was back in the mid-1980s, not long after I moved to Charlottesville.
Mar 3, 20215 min read
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Mindfulness and the Prodigal Yo-yo
I focus on my breath. I get distracted. Oops. Okay. And again. So many times that I feel like one of those toys on a string...
Feb 17, 20213 min read
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Being. Breathing. Being Breathed.
An absurd fantasy--I mentally roll my eyes when I read it. Yet when I decided to write about mindfulness this week that essay came to mind.
Jan 27, 20213 min read
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Small Seeds of Hope: Inverted and Everted Pain
I'm sorry he is in such pain. It is not a fun place to be. But with great power comes great responsibility. And if that power is abused...
Jan 13, 20214 min read
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In Order to Grow—Pruning Off a Major Branch
"Looks like we just gave ZZ Top a shave & crewcut!" said Celia. We looked at the huge and tangled heaps of grape vines we'd just pruned off.
Dec 9, 20204 min read
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Small Seeds of Hope: Spacing Material, Mortar and Dark Matter
Anti-Anxiety Tool of the Week: Jiggling This is one of my favorite ways to reduce stress. Just jiggle your entire body, gently but...
Dec 2, 20204 min read
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Small Seeds of Hope: Breathe in Beauty
Beauty is all around me--it hasn't gone away. The trees, the sky, a bird, an odd little insect. How to breathe in beauty & be in the world?
Oct 7, 20203 min read
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Small Seeds of Hope: Knowing My Limits...or..."Into the Icy Depths"
I didn't go quite as far, brave quite the storm--or cold--that I thought I could. Or should. But I did...
Sep 23, 20206 min read
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Small Seeds of Hope: A Tiny Toolkit of Quotations
Quotations, in a sense, are stories in miniature. Here are a few of my current favorites.
Sep 9, 20204 min read
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Small Seeds of Hope: Imperfectly
Forgiving ourselves, we learn to forgive others. Allowing our own foibles we are, hopefully, more able to accept imperfection in others.
Aug 26, 20203 min read
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Small Seeds of Hope: Love Who? Postdoctoral Spirituality
Perhaps I am naive, but my idea of a leader is someone who inspires you to be your best self, not one who bullies. Not an enemy-maker.
Aug 5, 20204 min read
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Sitting still and allowing love
Today I want to share two poems that continue to touch me. Perhaps you can rest in the tenderness and freedom they offer?
Jul 8, 20201 min read
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Small Seeds of Hope: Face of a Monster?
When I was twelve years old I met an extraordinary man. He didn't look very extraordinary. Dressed in monks' robes, he had a shy smile...
Jun 17, 20205 min read
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Small Seeds of Hope: This Is Really, Really Hard
Compassion leads to a life of power *with* others. Judgment leads to a hunger for power *over* others.
Jun 3, 20204 min read
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Migrating from "Anti-Covidanxiety Toolkits" to...?
Courage does not always shout. Hope does not always flare. Sometimes it is a small brown mouse who sneaks out...
May 21, 20203 min read
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Anti-Covidanxiety Toolkit #9
We all need support to be brave, less anxious, to lean a little bit more into love. So I continue to share these little pieces of hope...
May 13, 20204 min read
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Anti-Covidanxiety Toolkits: Lists of Tools
Here is the list of all the tools in all the toolkits so far. Or consider it an atlas of maps. Take what you like and leave the rest!
May 7, 20202 min read
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Anti-Covidanxiety Toolkit #6
This weeks tools? Admit your frustration. Swish your feet around. Talk funny. Hand to heart. Accept your humanity.
Apr 23, 20205 min read
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